MISS SINGLE GIRL
So I am a girl who likes to enjoy every moment she is in. Whenever I have been single I have enjoyed the moment, partied hard with the girls, lazied around in my PJs, exercised hardcore, mooched around the shops aimlessly. For me that what single is all about, it is bridget jones without the tears and the big knickers.
However as I have previously posted before sometimes a girl would just like to meet her Mr Romeo Right and for some finding Mr Romeo Right is tough. A colleague of mine just asked me this week, whether or not I thought that hanging out in pubs in residential areas would be a good place to meet someone. I breathed before I explained to her…mmm NO! Residential areas- Hampstead, Putney, Wimbledon equal families, so unless she wanted to find a guy with two children, a nanny and 4×4 then she better change her tactic. I did suggest she tries more bars (no clubs- see why in my analogy of the cows and the farmers) if she wants to meet someone. I will also be pointing my dear colleague to the londonlovemap. For all my blog readers who live in London the map shows where London’s most active singles are. Based on the londonlovemap my dear colleague should be sipping lycee martinis in bars in London Bridge, Bank and Oxford Circus as these are some of the main hotspots.
So when you have bagged Mr Romeo Right then what do you do? I think love is such a great thing so you should just simple enjoy it and nuture it. Love needs watering! When you meet that someone who you want to protect, who you absolutely adore despite them driving you potty dotty it adds an important jigsaw to your life.
For me Bob Marley sums up what my words cannot.
“He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He isn’t going to quote poetry, he’s not thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break. Don’t hurt him, don’t change him, and don’t expect for more than he can give. Don’t analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he’s not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don’t exist, but there’s always one guy that is perfect for you.”
Live, love and learn always and forever. Ps whatever camp you are in just enjoy it.